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Reflections from FETC 2022 | Happiness Is Contagious

1/31/2022

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I have just returned from FETC 2022 this weekend and let me say “It was awesome to be back in person.”  After two years of virtual and cancelled conferences, I loved being face to face and learning directly from others.  I also want to acknowledge Jen Womble (@jenwomble) and her incredible team who worked tirelessly to organize an outstanding conference.  Many other attendees also commented how much they enjoyed FETC.  The impact of this year’s conference will benefit many of our schools, educators, and students.

The conference opened up with a stellar keynote from Shawn Achor (@shawnachor).  Shawn is the author of several books with the most recent one being “Big Potential: How Transforming the Pursuit of Success Raises Our Achievement, Happiness, and Well-Being.”  Prior to FETC, I had not heard of Shawn but his opening keynote was just want I needed to hear.  Shawn focuses on the power of positive thinking and shared much research related to how happiness is a social endeavor that leads to success.  While I am still processing much of what he shared and I have his book on my next to read list, I enjoyed his thoughts tremendously.  Some of my key takeaways included this idea he called “the cult of average.”  He indicated that we, often, accept the idea that we want to be average and it causes us to stop believing happiness is possible. He cited that example that schools (and other organizations) often tailor classes and trainings to average.  He insightfully indicated that if we “study what is average, then we stay average.”  He discussed how this idea of “the cult of average” eliminates the outliers or “weirdos-” those who fall outside of the average paradigm.  He stressed that these outliers are good as they break the “tyranny of genes and environments” to become more positive.  He indicated that statisticians often look for ways to exclude outliers since they cause data to be less relational and causes more questions to be asked.  Shawn also shared that we can change our mindsets to create a more positive, engaged brain which he stressed is the “best asset for the modern economy.”  One thing that really resonated with me is that we experience joy when we move to live into our potential.  That was powerful.  When I think about moments in my life when I experienced joy, they definitely connected to opportunities where I could grow into my potential and being challenged to grow.

He stressed that we need a interconnected approach to happiness.  He said that we have a myth that “we believe that if we worked hard, we will be more happy.  We tell ourselves that we will be happy when …”. Shawn stressed we must consider how we pursue happiness.  He reminded us that success is a moving target and then when we experience success, the bar for the next success is raised.  He shared that “productivity rises when the brain is more positive.” If this is true, then employers should be working to ensure that their employees experience the conditions necessary for brain positivity.  He reminded us that we need to prioritize creating happiness first as this will help us deal with and process negatives.  We must see happiness as a precursor to success.  Happiness is a collaborative effort between individuals.  Collectively we create better outcomes for all when we all pull together.  A few months, we hosted a statewide face to face conference and I along with several members of our team were tasked with problem solving and filling in where needed to ensure that the conference was a success.  As I think about the challenges that we faced internally, I know that the collaboration played a tremendous role in ensuring that the conference ended up being successful.  However, we could not have been as a successful without believing that we could do this and supporting each other.  We had a shared vision and helped to pull each other up when discouraged.  Shawn indicated that research shows the greatest predictor of happiness is tied to our social connections.  By having an entire system of individuals like we did for the conference, we created better outcomes for all.  This interconnected approach was paramount.  We could not have accomplished what we did with the collective effort of others.

As if this was not transformative enough, Shawn ended his keynote stressing the importance of gratitude.  He reminded us that our brains scan our environment.  We must work to train our brains to scan for things that bring us joy and determine what we truly appreciate.  He challenged us to determine three things each day that we are happy or grateful for the next seven days.  This will help us to begin to train our brains to scan for gratitude as we complete this challenge. He then challenged us to continue this for 14 more days.  He said that we would initially begin to run out of things that we are grateful around day 7 and then the transformative would begin with day 8.  He concluded by reminding us to “let people in” and that “happiness is contagious in ecosystems.”  I can’t wait to read his book and reflect even more.

While the opening keynote set the bar high, I was able to find several sessions that stimulated my thinking and truly inspired me.  One of those sessions was “Dynamic Dashboard Using Google Data Studio” by Jennifer Judkins and Jonathan Schmid.  These two were incredible presenters with many tips and tricks learned from hard work, mistakes, and willingness to find a better way to solve problems.  They presented a great introduction on how to use Google Data Studio in a way that was easy to follow but challenged me to think of new and creative ways to use this tool to solve problems.  Many schools and districts are challenged with how to analyze and make sense of the many data that is collected.  Jennifer and Jonathan both stressed that we need tools that will display data in a way that is understandable for teachers to use to make strategic decisions that best support all students.  They also shared the importance of having a system that protects student privacy.  I can’t wait to explore using this tool and try out some of their suggestions.  I also appreciated their candor and willingness to be vulnerable by sharing their failures as well.

My colleague CA Chauncey and I presented “Design Thinking + Makerspaces:  Creating Authentic Learning Experiences.”  While we have presented this presentation several times in the past, we always find that each audience creates an experience with various different outcomes.  We have over 50 individuals attend our system.  One of those was my Twitter colleague, Debbie Tannebaum (@TannenbaumTech) from Northern Virginia.  Already an accomplished author (check out her book “TRANSFORM - Techy Notes to Make Learning Sticky”), she was in search of ways to further support students and staff in her school.  She shared that she was inspired by our session and got several new ideas of how to connect Design Thinking to literacy.  We hope others had similar ideas that would help them apply Design Thinking in a way to support students and generate better learning outcomes.

FETC is always a great experience for me to grow and this year lived up to that.  I was able to connect with other like minded educators who truly seek to create the best possible learning experience for students.  I look forward to working on creating a better mindset tied to gratitude and happiness.  I am so grateful for FETC and look forward to continuing to learn with this amazing PLC throughout the coming year.  I look forward to implementing gratitude throughout this year and exploring Google Data Studio.

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MLK & The Importance of Serving Others

1/17/2022

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Last week I received an email from one of my colleagues at Catawba College about the Martin Luther King, Jr holiday as being “not a day off, but a day on of service.”  This spoke very deeply to me as an educator and person.  For many of us, we get a holiday in mid January in honor of Dr. King but I am not sure how many of us really think about the difference that Dr. King made in our country and continues to make.  There is still much work to do and we cannot deny that.  The past couple of years have shown that individuals with different skin colors definitely have different experiences living in the same country.  Some individuals are fortunate enough to encounter less barriers to overcome than others based on where they live, who their parents, and other factors.  We have to believe that a better world can exist where there are less barriers and obstacles for all of us, regardless of background and circumstance, to live a life that is incredible and transformative.

As I continue to live into my resolution of being more faithful, I see service as a way to build trust in others as well as within myself.  Through service, we provide hope to others even though our service may not often be seen.  I truly believe that if each of us took some time to serve others, we could create transforms the lives of many others.  Hebrews 11.3 explains that “by faith we understand ..what was seen was made from things not visible.”  Though serving others, we can create better outcomes not only for them but for ourselves,  This is where the not visible part comes in.  I currently serve as youth group leader at my church and often share my times and talents in other ways in both my church and community.  In my current job, I also support educators from across the region and state and beyond.

I would encourage you to think about how you can serve others if you are not currently doing so.  Or perhaps, you are serving others and do not necessarily realize the impact that you are making when serving others.  Think about the talents, times, and resources that you have and how you could use those to make life better for someone else.  Maybe this involves you helping out at your local homeless shelter, volunteering your time to help at your house of worship, or maybe even checking to see if the local neighborhood school needs assistance.  Serving others can be as small or as large you are able to accommodate.  For many of us, time is a limiting factor.  Perhaps instead you can donate items as well or make financial contributions that you feel comfortable making.

Regardless of how you serve, the act of giving yourself, time, and resources creates a relationship between you and those who you serve.  By giving to others, we create stronger outcomes for many.  We also impact ourselves in ways that we often do not realize.  In October, my son and I helped with a canned food drive collection at our local homeless shelter.  It was amazing to see him give so freely of himself and ensure that others would be able to eat despite any food insecurities.  As a father, this brought me a sense of pride that I cannot adequately express.  I also benefitted from knowing that I was helping to make a difference.

Sometimes, we worry that our service won’t make any difference.  I would argue that any service that helps another makes a difference.  We don’t necessarily have to do something on a grandiose scale.  Instead, little things add up - “the power of addition.”  I encourage you to think about what you can do to serve others and commit to be “on” for serving others.  Begin small.  Realize that the power of serving others is that we create a powerful connection between ourselves and those we serve that connects us while humanizing our relationships.  Dr. King is quoted as as asking “What are you doing for others?”  I encourage you to thoughtfully explore this question and find a response that supports serving others with the gifts that you have.
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New Years Resolutions & Faith

1/15/2022

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We made it to 2022.  You know what that means - resolutions.  Resolutions are things that I hear a lot of people make but often just say them and let them fade as quickly as they were said.  I am guilty of that myself.  However, this year I am resolving to make two resolutions.  One resolution is to restart my blog with the goal of one blog post each month.  I had done an incredible job with making at least one blog post each month until COVID hit and just dropped the ball.  I am also open to shifting my blog posts to include more than just education experiences.  I have been blessed to live 45 incredible years and I want to share my stories and experiences as well as share some of my perspectives.  Wish me luck.

My second resolution is a bit more involved.  It remains re-centering myself and finding faith in life.  Faith is an incredibly difficult thing to explain and define as it means so much to so many.  There are many different facets of faith as well.  Faith is often cited as a cornerstone of any religion.  Growing up Southern Baptist and now being an Episcopalian, faith is key to each of these denominations.  It is key to many other religions, organizations, and groups also.  But what exactly is faith?  Does faith have different meanings experiences to others?  How do we know when we have faith and when our faith is weak?  These questions and others pose a lot for me to consider.

As I have grown older, I have come to realize that life can change quickly.  Earlier this year, I lost my father suddenly and unexpectedly.  Coupled with losing my mother when I was twenty years old, I now feel like an orphan.  The solace that I found in knowing that I always would have a place to go is now gone.  I cannot return to my native Appalachia or any other place that I will find totally secure and safe. Even though I am grown, there is still a part of me that wants the security of knowing that I can always return to my dad’s house no matter how crazy it has gotten or how bad something is.  With this security gone, I am forced to think about faith in new ways.  As we grow older, we lose loved ones.  If we are lucky, we were able to maximize our time with those before they go.  If we are lucky, we have fond memories that bring us much comfort and joy even when our loved ones die.  If we are lucky, we can find comfort in knowing that we loved others and they loved us.  While all these are incredible, not all of us are this lucky.  Some of us experience anger, bitterness, and questioning when loved ones pass. 

It is during these times that I have found FAITH to be key in helping to ease these transitions.
I feel that faith involves trust and confidence in things and people.  Hebrews 11.1 explains faith as “the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (NRSV). Other translations are similar in indicating that there is a part of faith that is “unseen.”  Faith helps us to have belief in what we cannot see.  It also provides the critical component of hope.  With the passing of my parents, I have faith that I will see and reunite with them again in heaven.  This is part of my faith.  

Recently, I had someone who is extremely special and meaningful to me do something that is in direct violation of that person’s principles, beliefs, and integrity.  While I will never understand the reasons why this individual chose these actions, it  devastated me.  It has rocked me to the core and left me questioning my faith.  I will struggle to have a meaningful relationship with this person going forward.  It has really saddened my heart and stole joy from me.  I continue to process and question why this person chose those actions.  I have meditated on this, prayed about it, and worked to understand this.  In the end, I am not sure if I will ever fully understand the reasons why.  I never realized that my faith would be tested so quickly and deeply though.

Faith is the belief  that what we hope for will happen even if we can’t see it.  As I struggled to understand my own feelings and pain, I have come to realize that the second part of faith, of things unseen, is critical here.  Faith gives me hope for reconciliation even though I have to trust what I cannot see and understand.  I think that this hope is precisely what faith gives us in challenging times.  Much like in the passing of both my parents, faith reminds of the importance of things hoped for, both unseen and unseen.

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